Hi guys! Fiesty here, this is my first time blogging here but with the way my mind wanders throughout the day I don't see myself having any problems acquiring regular readers! So wants to talk about relationships. Well, almost everyone really. So let's get to typing!
I'm an 18 year old girl, but don't take me lightly. I'm quite educated in this field. More than likely, I've been there, done that and finally realize what I should have done.
About 7 months ago my ex-fiance and I broke up. He was completely stuck on me, but I just realized suddenly one day I wasn't ready for what he wanted. So I left, and kind of sort of accidentally fell madly and stupidly in love with his best friend. OOPS! Oh well, I live with him now, he's 26 and he really is a great man. Aside from a few flaws. Such as....Arrogant, inconsiderate, rude, STUBBORN, egotistical, and has a very big attitude. He's not much for the "moving forward" in relationships. I know what I have to do though. I need to just simply, go away... When I was in Florida for a week, he wanted to marry me, have babies with me and spend the rest of forever with me in his arms. I got home and things were absolutely phenomenal between us for about 2 months. I think it's time to take off again...and stay away. I love him with all my heart, but I also know that it is natural human nature to follow who we feel we absolutely cannot live without. Men are like wolves, they love the hunt. When the deer is dead and there is nothing left but a rotting carcas, they are done with it and move on. Think of the deer as the love between you and your partner. You need to keep him sniffing you out, trying to predict what your next move will be. But if you are where my partner are in our relationship, it's too far gone for that. But there is still time if there is still a pulse in that deer. GO AWAY! Make him miss you, he will soon miss what has been there all along. If he doesn't, it wasn't meant to be. BUT GIRLS! BEWARE! If you are not 100% committed to moving on, and you come back without him begging on his knees, you have ruined everything, he will never take you seriously again. Trust me, I know.
That's enough for today, be sure to stay posted for more a few times a week! I do have a job, so I can't blog all day, as much as I'd LOVE to :)
Take care loves!!
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